A secure connection will never be found in the plays of emotional immaturity. If emotional stability in a connection is what you desire, recognise the triggers that keep you looped in the cycles of the pull & push dynamics, breadcrumbing, mind games, ghosting patterns and the like. If it causes you a state of emotional… Continue reading Conscious Dating Series ~ Part 1: Emotional Awareness in Triggering Connections
I’ll be honest guys, I wouldn’t have thought I’d ever find myself writing a post about self-worth and motivation either. I constantly find myself in a cycle of feeling a bit worthless, low on self-esteem and as a result pretty low on motivation. I find that most of the time when I climb into bed,… Continue reading You Don’t Have To Climb a Mountain Every Day – Written by The Doubting Thomas
Romantically, we all want to be loved, desired and validated. We're emotional beings in seek of what makes us happy either actively or at the very least have an unconscious yearning for. 'Happiness' is generally considered an object or person outside of us which we hopefully eventually evolve in life to understand really only comes… Continue reading A heightened perception of rejection will seek constant reassurance from others.
On my own journey of self-love I have been on both ends of the spectrum of self-value, and what was clearly evident in the contrast was the direct correlation in how others treated me was at the same standard I had subconsciously set in how I viewed and treated myself. At a time in my… Continue reading How you see yourself is how the world sees you too and will treat you accordingly
"Most of us are carrying around insecurities in relationships due to our experiences growing up. We’re scared of being hurt or rejected, and it’s tempting to close down—to shut love out so it can’t be taken away. But we need to trust that opening our hearts is worth the risk, and that even if someone… Continue reading I didn’t know how to let love in until now – By Lynn Reilly
To love without judgement, expectation or concern of the benefit it has to you is unconditional love. Appreciating and accepting another human being as they are is love in its purest form.To love unconditionally is an active choice which extends from first loving ourselves. Without recognising and healing our own insecurities, fears, unworthiness and expectations… Continue reading To Love Others Without Condition, You Need To Love Yourself Unconditionally First❤
Your attempt to heal and open the heart of another who is incapable of loving you in the nurturing way your heart deserves will eventually teach you howto love yourself. The love that one withholds intentionally or not is by no means a negative representation of them as a person nor is this article directed… Continue reading It’s not your responsibility to open the closed hearts of those incapable of loving you the way you deserve
Great read on the Attachment Theory by Vanessa Delgado - https://wp.me/p9Ml4i-aj
SELF LOVE Once when I was running,from all that haunted me;to the dark I was succumbing-to what hurt unbearably.Searching for the one thing,that would set my sad soul free.In time I stumbled upon it,an inner calm and peace;and now I am beginning,to see and to believe,in who I am becoming-and all I've yet to be-Lang… Continue reading Self-Love Poem by Lang Leav
To love is one thing, but to allow yourself to fall in love is foreign to most of us, why? Because it literally requires you free fall into the unknown. What can be found in the unknown can take you anywhere from the depths of ultimate heartbreak to something beautiful and fulfilling. The perceived risk… Continue reading If Falling in Love is What You Want, You Will Need to Remove the Safety Nets and Risk the Fall.